Death Over Life ?

Time is powerful.

And the most powerful thing after time is our thoughts. You are what you think. A mentally strong person can overcome hurdles and live life brighter while the mentally weak person can go up to ending life.It’s not how hard your life is, it’s how hard you think it is.Your mind makes choices and to make a choice to end one’s life is not easy. It is an outcome of severe problems, anxiety and hopelessness that one can’t survive. It’s a murder where death is chosen over Life.

The older we get, we start struggling with the challenges of life. From the expectations of the world to your dreams, from being responsible to freedom we seek, from the fear of being abandoned to the self esteem that has declined, from loving selflessly and being cheated in return, from learning to fight back to fail every time.

To add to this, people have started to actually fake emotions. We show like we care but we don’t. We can talk to a friend, make him feel special, motivate but all we do is try to make fun out of his/her weakness. We have become very good at commenting, criticizing, backbiting.

For example :You have told a fat friend how ugly he looks but have you ever tried to change his life? You have mocked a dull person but have you ever tried to be there and help him become smart? You have made jokes on weakness of a physically disabled person but have we been there to support him mentally ? NO.We have made people realize in the power of being physically sound and to appreciate only external beauty that fades over time. We have actually turned out to complain more and not act.We have pointed at the imperfections of people, laughed at them but never made point to understand them and love them with their flaws.

We have started learning to become selfish and work for our happiness. But are you happy when people around are not? Are you happy when you have every modern facilities with you and your parents are struggling with small moments of love with you? Why have we made money so powerful and the feelings care, love and togetherness so small ? A great dress can give you happiness, a luxurious life can give you happiness but until when? We must know that there is no bigger joy than being there for small and big happiness in family and friends. You need well wishers and people who really love you. You need elders to guide you and people who can celebrate your happiness.

And Why is so much EGO that is growing among us. Why are we looking for someone to make the first move? Like we are friends of this and that site and he does not tell me “Hi”, why should I ? Why are we competing ? And why is everyone asking ? You will miss out so many things if you don’t talk to that person but still you will not.

We pretend to be happy-The Biggest LIE of our generation. We show like we are the happiest person while deep down we have the shittiest of life but still we will not let people know that. Because we are afraid, insecure. Sometime it’s fine to tell the world that you are imperfect, to upload a very natural kind of photo, to express how you feel, to understand to be accepted as you are. You need to be yourself not someone who others have perceived you as. Because we live once and we must have no regrets.

The other thing – We fear the Judgement of people. What if I fail ? What if I don’t earn as much as someone is earning and so much. We tend to stay unhappy because we look at people, our friends being successful. Keep doing your job and stay honest. You are anyway going to die one day without your bank balance.

Depression, anxiety, substance abuse and disorders are increasing and it has reached to a majority of us. So many of our fellow mates are prone to suicide because they find no reason to move with so much complexities in life. It becomes obvious for them to choose death over life and all of this is because of us.

Yes, We have failed.

We have failed because we have friends who can’t tell us their pain,who can’t cry with us. We have failed as we have stopped making them believe in the reality and happiness of Life. We have failed to make them feel comfortable and loved.

We have failed to encourage a person who has failed. We have made a person feel so lonely and not desirable that life seems so distracting, unpleasant. We have failed to uplift the ones who are vulnerable. We have failed to bring people above poverty and complexities of life.

We have failed as humans, as friends and as all possible relationships.

Isn’t it the time we come more humble and kind? That we love people more than anything and become there for our friends through all their pain and happiness. It takes years of passion and honest sacrifice of numerous people for your life, Is it worth end ?

Is living such a hard thing ?

Why End Life while there are beautiful things to live?

No matter how hard, we must live to suppress our fear and live.We must understand that being there for one another is pure joy. We fail at times, we get broken, we have no reasons to live but we must move on. Work harder and believe in the Almighty. Sooner or later if we have hope, there are possibilities of happiness and satisfaction.

Live for the sunrises, the chilly winters, for every small moments that you have cried, for every sacrifice your parents have put, for every friend that have come and helped you smile, for someone who will love you for all of you, for all the wonderful art and travel, for making the unknown people in your life more happy.

Live for those who have lost faith in humanity, for those who have tried to overcome and failed, for those who have given up for your life, for everything that has ever make your heart beat a little faster.

Everyone is fighting their battle, slow and bad. You will do fine if you keep working. Believe in life and the power of your hard work. You will need to have the patience, persistence and positive attitude to make best out of your life.

To anyone who is fighting with sadness and low esteem.Show them love. Shower them with blessings. Give them reasons to cherish.

They are sick and need your care. You never know how many nights your friend has cried alone and that if only you knew he/she was going through, how easy it would have been for you to make them come out of their problems. They need love and hope to come out from their dark room of regrets and mishaps. They may need some counselling, guidance or medication but most importantly they need acceptance from us.They need to be treated with affection and not sympathy.

They need love and time. Be there in person for your friend. Listen to their problems, small ones. To some people those small issues are life changing and problematic.

There is no cost that we must pay to become wise and kind. We must love people for all their imperfections with no judgement. We must motivate them and help them find their way out of pain and misery, That’s our responsibility as humans, to help others at need without any expectations. Even the strongest people will fail, they also need people to console them.

Life is too short to live if you can manage to feel the love within yourself.

Stay happy, warm and open minded. Have the courage to love people, make them feel the power of friendship and give them reasons to cherish Life.

Become their sunshine, Become their Jokes at night, their diaries to heartbreaks.

You never know when you need one.

You can tell me about any of your problems , anytime. I will make sure to listen to them and try to help you come out. I will need someone too ultimately.

Much love. Stay safe and positive.

Hopeful and Helpful ❤